In the vibrant hallways of Fourways High-School, we’re not just students; we’re young adults experiencing the rollercoaster of adolescence, and that includes exploring the world of relationships. Whether you’re a student or a teacher, being in a relationship is a part of life, but it’s crucial to be aware of the signs of manipulation and abuse, even if you are in love.
Love should be built on trust, respect, and equality. When someone tries to control your actions, emotions, or decisions, it’s a red flag. It’s essential to recognise when boundaries are crossed, when your feelings are belittled, or when decisions are made for you. True love supports your growth and individuality, it doesn’t suppress it. Affection can be subtle or shown openly, but it can also be harmful. It is imperative to watch out for guilt-tripping, constant jealousy, or isolation from friends and family
Abuse isn’t limited to physical harm; it can be emotional, verbal, or psychological. If your partner constantly puts you down, belittles you, or makes you feel afraid, that’s abuse. Remember, you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.
Don’t ever feel trapped in a toxic relationship. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or a teacher. At Fourways High School, we’re a supportive community, and we’re here to help. Professionals and counsellors are available to provide guidance.
The most important lesson is that you should never be afraid to walk away from an unhealthy relationship. Your well-being comes first, and true love doesn’t hurt.
In the colourful hanging of relationships at our school, let’s make sure they’re filled with love, support, and respect, ensuring our journey through adolescence is one of growth and happiness.